Guest Post: "You are SEW loved!" (DIY Valentine)


Valentine's Day is coming up! And we're excited to share a fun valentine you can make with your little ones. The details (including the printables!) are on a guest post over at Sweet Little Peanut--a charming blog filled with all sorts of lovely things for you mamas and your little peanuts. You can make these "You are 'sew' loved!" valentines with your kids at home, at school, at a Valentine's party, or the like! xo  


Meet LJ!

We'd like to introduce you to LJ, this month's Cancer Cutie. This sweet boy is fighting leukemia and has been defying the odds since he was diagnosed at 5 years old. He and his family (his younger brother who lovingly donated his bone marrow to LJ) have been on this journey for almost 3 years, and you can read his story below, written by his mother.
{ Dad, brother, LJ, Mom }
The story of our family life forever changed in February 2011 when our oldest son, LJ, who was 5 at the time, was diagnosed with Pre-B cell acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL). After a few weeks of leg pain (that we just brushed off as “growing pains”), night sweats (which we just brushed off as normal since his dad does the same thing), and a significant change in his otherwise friendly and polite demeanor, we realized something was really wrong.

His pediatrician ordered X-rays of his back and legs and bloodwork to attempt to find a clear-cut answer for his pain. His complete blood count (CBC) came back normal, but his protein level was a tad elevated. His X-ray revealed a slight slippage of a disc in his lumbar spine. The orthopedic surgeon concluded that he may have a spinal infection and he needed to be seen at the hospital right away because if it were as he suspected, it would require IV antibiotics over a period of about 3 weeks.  We requested to go to St. Louis Children’s, since LJ’s grandma works there, and after a little coordination we were on our way.

We were to go to the emergency room prior to admission. Grandma was waiting for LJ and me when we got there, and we were soon taken back to a room where all the tests done earlier were repeated. Once the results were back, the doctor came in and asked us if it was okay if someone sat with LJ while she talked to us elsewhere (by this point, LJ’s dad had made it to the hospital). We already knew something was wrong when she asked us to leave his side, but our worries were solidified when she took us to a “grief room” complete with Kleenex, a phone, and comfortable couches. The doctor explained that on manual examination of his blood, he had abnormal appearing white blood cells consistent with leukemia (although being a Friday afternoon, pathology was unavailable until Monday to give a definitive result). This moment will always be remembered as the day our lives changed forever, and suddenly we were wishing for a “simple” spinal infection.
On Monday pathology confirmed the type of leukemia and noted that 69% of his white blood cells were leukemic. LJ immediately began treatment. The road was long, we knew, but LJ tolerated everything so well sometimes it was hard to remember that he had cancer. Deep down, even after over two years of treatment, LJ’s dad and I were concerned that he was not “sick enough.” His blood counts were more that of a non-cancer patient’s every month, and his chemotherapy dosages were constantly being increased to try to lower his blood counts. I silenced my inner concerns by telling myself that his lab work never showed any leukemic cells.

In June 2013, LJ enjoyed a week at his favorite place, Camp Rainbow, a weeklong camp for kids with blood diseases. After returning he kept complaining of headaches that were not being relieved with pain medication. He was admitted to the hospital, where they performed a diagnostic lumbar puncture to rule out relapse in his cerebrospinal fluid. The results came back clear, and we breathed a sigh of relief. The doctors decided to treat him for a tick-borne illness as a precaution, since he had been at camp and two ticks were found on him (although his bloodwork was negative for any specific tick-borne illnesses). His headaches seemed to resolve with this treatment, and we were able to return home.

The following week we went for a routine clinic visit and lumbar puncture. While LJ was sleeping after his procedure, a nurse came and notified me that his doctor wanted to speak to me. She asked if I wanted her to call my mom (who was working that day). I said yes, and followed her to yet another “grief room.” I knew at this point, that our instincts had been correct, and despite past examinations and diagnostic tests, LJ was sick again. I immediately called my husband, who was 40 minutes away, and he asked me to tell the doctors to wait until he got there. I told him there was no way I could wait 40 minutes after they had already put me next to another box of Kleenex. My mom came upstairs, followed shortly by the doctors, and we were notified that LJ had relapsed in his central nervous system. Again, this was on a Friday, so on Monday we had to return for a bone marrow biopsy which ended up revealing the cancer was back in the bone marrow also. Our long road suddenly seemed to split, and now we didn’t know which way to go.

We took the doctors advice, which was to prepare for a bone marrow transplant. This, we were told, would be his best chance of achieving a “cure.” I use the word cure lightly, because as any family who has travelled the pediatric cancer road knows, the 80% cure rate advertised is just a mask for the reality of what it actually is, and that is it is merely a 5-year survival rate. After a few more weeks of more intense chemotherapy, cranial radiation, and numerous diagnostic tests, LJ was finally ready for transplant.

LJ was admitted to the bone marrow unit on Friday the 13th of September, and he had a new central venous catheter placed. He was administered even more extremely toxic chemotherapy to significantly decrease his white blood cell count, followed by total body radiation to completely eliminate his own bone marrow. On Tuesday the 17th of September, LJ received his new bone marrow, lovingly donated to him by his 6-year old brother, Jonah.


We were lucky, only 25% of bone marrow transplant patients have a sibling match. This knowledge significantly increased our confidence in our choice to go along with transplant. It felt like fate. As I type this, LJ is currently at day +46 post-transplant, and doing well. We spent 20 days on the bone marrow unit, when we were expecting 5-7 weeks. In fact, had we stayed the full 7 weeks, we would still be there now. Does it worry us that, once again, he is defying the odds and doing better than traditionally expected? Yes, always. When LJ gets a cough, fever, etc… it will never be just that, EVER (I don’t care if he is 30-years old when it happens)! The difference this time is that I don’t have that gut feeling that something is about to go incredibly wrong.   
***UPDATE***
Results from October 24, 2013 show complete donor cell engraftment! Incredible! :)

Festive Eats: Breakfast, Snack, and Dessert!

Who likes to play with their food? ;) The holidays and having little ones around definitely calls for festive eats! First up, breakfast:

BREAKFAST: A big thank you to pinterest for this one! Who can resist a little Rudolph the Red-nosed pancake for breakfast? Two flapjacks for the head, chocolate chips or blueberries for the eyes, a raspberry (or red M&M or strawberry) for the nose, and bacon for the antlers and you're set!

Next, SNACK TIME: a healthy holiday treat! We've seen fruit and vegetable Christmas trees before, served at holiday parties, and they're always a big hit. But why not make a simple version that our kiddos can take part in making? We did, and it was a hit--even for our little party of 2 the other afternoon! The details are in a guest post over on the lovely blog Dear Lindsay--go here to check it out! Plus it works as an activity, snack time, and meal prep!

And top it off with DESSERT: Whether it's for your own family, or a plate for your neighbors, there's nothing like a festive-shaped cookies! And gingerbread cookies are sure to make your kitchen smell heavenly and your belly happy. Ours the other day were a bit on the dry side (hence the extra-long soak in milk;) but this recipe for gingerbread men on Jenny Evans: Gatherings blog is tried and true! Then I just melted some white chocolate and piped it on for the "frosting".

Happy Holidays everyone!

Care to share some of your favorite festive eats??

The Heart of a True Princess/Prince

Feel free to save and print the Princess/Prince images as a "thank you" for supporting Rae. xo
You never know the places you'll find inspiration. When I saw a commercial on the Disney Junior channel almost a year ago, I couldn't help but record it to write down what was said--and then created the print above. :) It was a young girl saying simple words, but they were so powerful. Imagine if every girl (and boy) could have similar feelings--especially that "having big dreams is important, but having a big heart is more important." The heart of a true princess or a prince is one that is kind to others and knows that they can make a difference--that every little, good deed makes all the difference. 

The sweet princess in the foreground of this photo is Raenalynn, this month's Cancer Cutie. We are so grateful for those who have been able to donate to Rae and her family! Thank you for your big hearts. And wonderful news! Millie's Princess Foundation is going to be MATCHING donations AGAIN, up to $2500 which could become $5000, for sweet Rae!!! Their generosity is inspiring! So let's do this, together. We can do little things that will make a big different in the lives of Rae and her family. 

For those that want to keep up with the incredible Millie's Princess Foundation...go to their site here, Facebook page here, and Instagram here. :)

And here's a little reminder of a couple products on PS I Adore You that are benefiting Raenalynn and other family's dealing with cancer! :) First, there's the darling Alphabet Coloring Book for just $5, with all proceeds going to Rae! You can also get Cancer Fighting Swords, reminding our kids that together we can fight for a cause, and a portion goes to helping families who are battling cancer. Again thank you for your support friends!

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The prints below are yours for free, as a "thank you" for supporting our cause and donating to families like Raenalynn's--you can do so here.  Cheers to encouraging the princesses and princes in our lives to be brave and have big hearts that do good! xo

(This second Princess print is just to match the new Prince one) 

DIY Wooden Plaque Chalkboard


Finally jumping on the chalkboard-paint train! And I'm a fan. :) I love the sleek yet relaxed look of chalkboard, and combined with a rustic wood plaque, I couldn't resist. Thought I'd share a little DIY project using it. The holidays get me in a crafty mood, anyone the same?  

The supplies you'll need are a wood plaque (I found mine at Joann Fabric & Craft store, but here is a similar one), chalkboard paint, paint brush, pencil, and chalk. That's it! :) First thing you'll want to do is use a pencil to slightly trace a line along the outer edge that will make painting easier.

 Then paint 3 thin, even layers of chalkboard paint, letting them dry in between layer (I waited a couple hours before painting each one). Then let the last layer dry and set for a full day.

You'll want to season the chalkboard by rubbing the side of a piece of chalk over the whole chalkboard surface evenly, then erase (I juse use a paper towel and it words great, and I'd do it near a garbage can, there's lots of dust). That's so when you write/draw for the first time it doesn't leave marks that won't completely erase.

And ta-da!! Simple as that. :)


It was fun making it, and has been even more fun using it! I've enjoyed writing messages, making lists, and the best is watching my little boy learn to trace his letters on the chalkboard. :) One more part I forgot to mention! If you want to hang yours up on the wall, we're big fans of Command Picture Hanging Strips and they worked great! Just be sure to use a few. And, while I loved making ours, if you want skip the DIY part, you can head over to the lovely The Flybird etsy shop and buy your own wooden chalkboard!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful December!

Meet Raenalynn!

Today we are introducing Raenalynn, a little beauty who is battling a rare brain cancer tumor called Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma. Rae was 3 years old when diagnosed with this tumor that's 100% terminal. She has had 30 radiation treatments over a span of 6 weeks and is on a trial chemotherapy. Currently she is in her 7th of 12 cycles of the chemo, and she has had 4 MRIs--the one after radiation showed the tumor shrank 47%! And every MRI since has shown the tumor is thankfully stable. 

Rae is now 7 months post diagnosis and she and her family are taking it day by day. Over the last half a year of going through treatment and procedures, Raenalynn has continuously smiled that sweet, contagious smile. :) Always inspiring others with her fighting spirit, "RAE IS MY HERO," is worn on shirts and bracelets by so many that love her. And the number one person who looks up to her as his hero is her little brother, Xander. The family says that sweet, little 2 year old keeps their family's life balanced. And they are in it together, to support and love each other through it all! 

Raenalynn is a strong girl with a beautiful heart! She has been lifted and loved by so many, and the future support given means the world to her and her family. Thank you all for reading Rae's story, your positive thoughts, prayers, and support are appreciated more than you know!

^^ Some of Rae's empty or leftover medication bottles, before her mom disposed of them. It's heartbreaking to see how much these little ones have to take. ^^
^^ Raenalynn's sweet artistic work on the right. ^^
^^ Raenalynn and her sweet mom. Rae received and gave so much love at "Rae's Royal Ball" this summer. ^^
^^ Little Xander, Rae's brother, proudly wearing his "Rae is my HERO" shirt! ^^

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Let's help make this Christmas and New Year for Raenalynn and her family, the best yet! We appreciate each and every donation made in her name--financial relief for a family dealing with medical bills means more than words can say. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Happy Holidays everyone!!

Happy Birthday PS!

Wow, we can hardly believe it's been a year since the three of us watched our hard work come to life! Since the idea of PS I Adore You was born, being able to see it grow the way it has is incredible!! We have put our heart into it, and it's been the most rewarding year! By far, the highlights have been giving back to the cancer cuties. Two of them have earned their angel wings, Brielle and Millie, and they continue to inspire so many! We will never stop spreading awareness to find a cure for childhood cancer in their honor.

Over the past year we've learned it's important to be YOU. Each of us have gifts that only we can offer, and we create a beautiful world by sharing them and lifting one another. Being authentic feels better at the end of the day, don't you think? Our paths have crossed with so many generous people with the most beautiful hearts. We love this print that says: BELIEVE THERE IS GOOD IN THE WORLD, with the highlighted letters saying BE THE GOOD. There truly is so much good in the world--we have witnessed it first hand. Thank you, thank you, and thank you again for your support of us and our Cancer Cuties and their families. Together we can do BIG things.

To show our appreciation, we are so excited to be throwing a birthday party of sorts to celebrate turning 1--in the form of a week full of giveaways!! Keep up with us and the giveaways on our Instagram (follow @psiadoreyou here) and Facebook ("like" our PS I Adore You page here). We're looking forward to a wonderful week, and wishing everyone a very Happy Thanksgiving!